Remember, It’s His Wedding Too!
Today, many men say “It’s his wedding too!” and want to get involved in the wedding planning process.
Consequently, many Grooms-to-be are taking a stand and want to be heard. Some just don’t know where to start and others don’t want to step on any toes.
So here are 8 tips to pull your man in to the decision-making process:
1. Don’t Forget That It’s HIS Wedding Day, Too!
Don’t assume he doesn’t care. Maybe he thinks that YOU don’t care what he thinks. Ask him for real and not just “babe, what do you think about this thing I’ve already selected.”
2. Open A Dialogue About What HE Hopes To See And Do On The Day
Explain that you’re not flying solo. So, what would he consider a fail? What does success look like? You might be surprised by the answers…..
3. Explain Your Thought Process And Show Him What You Like And Why
He might’ve been to a few weddings, but I guarantee he wasn’t looking at the lace tablecloths, the chairs covers, or the icing on the wedding cake. Also, explain why you want to make certain decisions, what each means, and why you want to experience something different.
To ease some anxiety, meet with a wedding planner. Let the planner explain and list all the little details, from the color of the linens to the seating chart, that need a decision to be made.
4. Let Him Be A “Dude”
Accept the fact that he will never care about the subtle differences between burgundy, wine, and cranberry and your wedding isn’t going to change that one bit. Don’t make him guess, tell him exactly what makes you happy and reinforce the positive as you should already be doing in your relationship. At the end of the day, he really just wants to make you his wife.
Let Him Be Creative
Your man might just surprise you with his ideas. For instance, put him in charge of something he likes…. selecting the limo or picking the entertainment and make music selections. Always proceed with an open mind.
If You Ask Him To Handle It, Let Him Be
Love and trust him enough to know that he will do right by you as it relates to your wedding plans and your life together.
Remind Him That He’s What’s Important
Throughout the process, remind him that he’s what’s important beyond the flowers and planning ‘stuff’. Besides, at the end of the day isn’t getting married what the entire process is all about?
Finally, Let Him Dress And Groom Himself
If he’s totally hopeless and can’t even groom or dress himself, why are you marrying him?!! Offer your opinions and then refer back to number 6.
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